Some of you have heard me talk about Shoshana -- whom I met via okc a couple months ago.
On June 23, Sophia said:
if I were categorizing things according to my categories, I would say you guys are dating but not in a relationship. :-P Which I think can be a really good, healthy thing, the "I enjoy this person as a friend, and like flirting with them, and being just a little romantic with them, but a SRS RELATIONSHIP does not feel like the place this needs to progress to right now." Like friends with benefits in an emotional sense? :-PWe present in a lot of ways like we're dating, but up until recently I would have said (and did say) that I am not interested in her That Way (though she has a crush on me). And then there was the Monday holiday. Thursday morning, Scott's overall recommendation was that I needed to stop overthinking this (it is one of my mundane gifts -- to which Shoshana said, "It's not one of your superpowers?"). Thursday evening there was kissing. I'm not sure this actually changes the nature of our relationship to NOT "Sophia-dating" (as Shoshana deemed Sophia's paragraph above), but I figured keeping people up-to-date at least a little bit on relevant developments would be appropriate.
(And no, you can't meet her at Saturday's party, as unfortunately she has a pre-existing out-of-town commitment.)