July 12th, 2011


on me and kink

me: It also occurs to me that my previous fantasies around bondage and dominance have largely been in contexts where doing so would be claiming some power/control/dominance in a relationship where I felt like the balance was such that I had less of the power/control. *ponders*

person: I have trouble imagining you in a relationship were you have less of the power/control. Which probably means that I don't know you that well.


Yes, I grinned a lot at that.