Dude, i am all about complexity and multiple sides and all, but it is so much easier when i only know one party in a troubled relationship. It is so much easier to be able to say "I like you. You are right. Other party sucks." Though now that i think about it, sometimes the party you like seems in the wrong, even if you adore them and don't know the other party. Life is complicated. Funny how i keep coming back to that deduction.
Also, Billie Myers' Vertigo album is much better than Growing, Pains even though the latter has some of my favorite songs of hers. This is my opinion at the moment, anyway; i reserve the right to retract and/or edit it at any time.