Also: Why can I not find that ficlet in which Buffy asks Giles to explain gay sex to her? (The background is that Xander and Oz are together, but the point of the story is the Buffy and Giles interaction.) I read it on LJ a while back -- mint green background, S2 style -- but now I can't find it. I didn't care enough to bookmark it, but I was telling Emma about it this weekend and now I wanna find it to show her.
Edit: wisdomeagle wins! The fic is here.