It's possible that there's something profoundly sad/ironic about spending part of one's Friday night putting together a party invitation. But I'm so over the idea that Friday has to = going-out-night. Anyway, evite is sent, as are various facebook messages; hardcopies will go out on Monday. I worry both that I'm neglecting people and that I'm inviting people who will (mentally) respond to the invitation with a 'wtf.' I think I've managed a fair balance, though.
And of course, if somehow I missed you and you want in, just let me know.