I have this bad tendency of forgetting that skimming the flist when I'm too busy to respond means when I finally have time I don't have a clear sense of how far back I should go. Also, people post a lot. I am at skip=200 and it's last Friday. Though admittedly it is Tuesday night now. I'm less stressed than I sometimes am about responding to everything exactly in order and suchlike, so that's good, growth and all.